@Little Cherry: relax darlin' sry i'm abit boy-talk right there. Right, b4 accuse, would u be kind enouf to give me a chance to explain. Ok, plz read previous post, it's indicating "What do u think it's a beautiful girl"
Ok, apparently, each and every1 of us, by this far, have already built up a model of our favourite opposit sex partner, right? Now, u kan tell me... "NO, I DUN...I'M COOL W. EVERY1" that'd be the biggest lie. Dun jump into any conclusion, i'm not trying to be big-headed here honey. Just sit back and relax. Now...
Say wen u girls chillaz w. each other, i'm sure u girls would have something like "I like my bf to be tall, play sports, music and all..." or ... "i wish my bf can be abit more sentimental to me ...". Do we, the boys/men/gentlements stand up and say "oh, bs, the grass is not greener on the other side of the hill". No, we don't. Bcuz' we understand, ppl has a certain lvl of desire and we respect that ...... so likewise plz. Tell me u dun and i'll admit i'm the biggest fool in the world.
Now, let's consider my tone in a constructive way. Ok, that's the type of girl i like..., i'm sry, did i say i hate ugly girls? I didn't and let me tell ya again I DIDN'T SAY SO, but i have to admit i have a better tendancy to smile at a good-looking girl even if she dun smile back; and i would not smile at some1 who God has spent a lil less effort on her cosmetical-wise unless she smile at me first. Now that's me, i can't and i won't bs on that. Now tell me u girls treat handsome + nice guys and ugly + nice guys with unbias attitude and i'm sure u ARE BS-ing me. Sry, wen it comes to discussion i like to straight out my view.
You take my words as "not respecting u" because u think so. If u dun mind, i'd like to talk base on my poor knowledge of psychology. In my humble opinion, u take my words abit harsh bcuz' u lack of confidence. Now if u'r a person like me, which not bragging by any means and honestly talking, i'm not that GREAT, and i strongly agree w. u that my brain does most of the job making me handsome. Now why do i consider myself so? Bcuz' i'm confident, i have a lvl of certainty in my charms and it rarely fails me. So why dun u pose up abit and look into wat i say....???
There's completly no sexism (i.e sexual racist) in my talk, it's just:
IF I HAVE A CHOICE, I'D LIKE TO HAVE A GIRL LIKE THIS PLZ
now that just has the same meaning as
I'D TRY TO GET A GF LIKE THAT...., MAN, I'LL TRY MY BEST.
Darlin, ur perception is abit too tight round here. Ok, and also, wen discussing abt perception of beauty, ppl (mostly guys) talks abt their dream girl, which indeed for partnership and sexual relationship. Correct me if i'm wrong, i'm a person who HAS A CERTAIN TASTE and i just DARE TO SAY IT OUT. I dun know how u get this to anywhere near "do we choose how we look like" and shit. The answer is :
Yes and No
- Yes: developing environment and daily activity contributes to appearance...., if u go to gym and do exercise, leave a healthy life; HOW THE FK DID U GET FAT? (sry, i use the f word just for emphasis, no offence plz). Dun blame that u'r short, there'r 1001 exercise help increase height, u just didnt try hard enouf
- No: u carry certain genetic traits from ur lineage so yeh.... u cannot choose wat color ur hair is and all, there's always dyes and highlights
Enouf of explaination, i think (or more likely darlin) i hope, u get the message. If i'm a harsh person, do u know wat i shud say...? I'd go like "u trepassed into a topic that u KNOW FOR SURE wat the boys would say and earn a certain agony out of ur curiosity, serve u right"
But i dun, bcuz' i think it's not even a big deal, it's 2006 hon, talk and think abt opposite gender more abt sex and less abt brain and characteristic. Tell me i'm abit old-style, nothing i can say
@Sun: honey, i hope i've explained myself up there too. And pardon me the topic has nothing to do w. "appreciating ppl value" it's mere discussion on ppl concept of a beautiful girl, now there's mine and i dun think i deserve criticism for just presenting my thoughts. And if this happened to hijacked to "humanity and human value shit".... i dun think u have a slight position to tell me honey... Check again wat u got there
@Wan: thoi di pa, ngta dang chanh lu.n heng say pa dzo^ kiu stop, sa?ng wa' a`. Trust me, i know how to do things and wat to say, i won't get this any uglier the topic